I remember being sixteen years old, working my first "real" job at Sears. I was ringing up a woman and her daughter and out of nowhere, the mother says to her daughter, "see, she has a nice shape and body size" pointing at me. I smiled and said "thank you." In that moment, I took what she said as a compliment. I finished helping them with their purchase and they went along their way. It wasn't until later that evening when I stopped and took some time to process what happened